Error of Man: Surgical failure – transgender chooses death by euthanasia

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Sex Change Industry: What They Don’t Tell You

By Michael Brown, CP OP-ED Contributor

The story from Belgium was absolutely tragic. A 44-year-old woman disappointed by her female-to male surgery decided to die by euthanasia, feeling that the surgery had left her a monster. But the story behind the story is even more tragic.

Of course, if we simply believed the glowing reports in the media, you would think that everyone who has sex-change surgery is perfectly happy with the results. In keeping with that mentality, there’s a new term we are supposed to use, namely gender-realignment surgery.

This replaces the previous new term, sex-reassignment surgery, which replaced the more graphic term, sex-change surgery.

And make no mistake about it: This is a radical surgery involving removing and changing perfectly healthy organs and body parts simply because the person is convinced in his or her mind that the parts shouldn’t be there.

In the case of Belgian’s Nathan Verhelst, born Nancy Verhelst, she was allowed to die by lethal injection on the grounds of “unbearable psychological suffering.” (It should be noted that one in 50 deaths in Belgium today is the result of euthanasia, but that’s yet another tragic story.)

As reported in Belgian news, Verhelst said after surgery,

“I was ready to celebrate my new birth. But when I looked in the mirror, I was disgusted with myself. “My new breasts did not match my expectations and my new penis had symptoms of rejection. I do not want to be… a monster.”
Photo of Nathan Verhelst born Nancy Verhelst (via goggle.com)

Photo of Nathan Verhelst born Nancy Verhelst (via goggle.com)

All that is sad enough to read, but the story behind the story is worse still, pointing to the deeper issues involved in Verhelst’s life: Her mother rejected her from birth, having this to say after she received news of her daughter’s death: “When I first saw ‘Nancy’, my dream was shattered. She was so ugly. I had a ghost birth. Her death does not bother me.”

Have you read anything more cruel from a child’s own mother?

She continued, “For me, this chapter closed. Her death does not bother me. I feel no sorrow, no doubt or remorse. We never had a bond which could therefore not be broken.”

And Nancy/Nathan struggled with this pain of rejection right until the time of her death: “Hours before his [sic] death Mr. Verhelst had spoken of how, as a child, he ‘was the girl that nobody wanted’, describing how his mother had complained that she’d wished he’d been born a boy.”

Does it take a psychologist to recognize that this was the real root of Verhelst’s problems? That being rejected from birth by her own mother as “so ugly” and as a “ghost birth” and as not being the son her mother wanted, was the real cause of her gender confusion? (I’m not saying this is always the case, but it was obviously the case here.)

Walt Heyer is a man who lived through this himself, first with his grandmother dressing him up as girl when he was just a few years old (and praising him for his looks after dressing him up), then, some years later, suffering repeated sexual abuse at the hands of another man.

As a married man with children, he concluded that he really was a woman, going through years of hormone therapy and then having sex-change surgery and becoming Laura, an identity he kept for years, only to realize that his deeper problems were never resolved. Not surprisingly, the sex-change doctor he saw also failed to explore Heyer’s other issues.

Eventually, he got off hormones, reversed what he could surgically, and married another woman, launching the website SexChangeRegret.com. A report on the website today states that, “The Belgrade Center for Genital Reconstructive Surgery says that they have received 1,500 requests for reversal surgery.” Why is that?

Read more: http://www.christianpost.com/news/sex-change-industry-what-they-dont-tell-you-106177/

21 Comments on “Error of Man: Surgical failure – transgender chooses death by euthanasia”

  1. Lilie

    This is so sad, how can a mother say something so horrible to their child, look at the consequences of our actions ,our words. We must learn to love our children, like God loves us, encourage them,strengthen them. Ensure them of their strong points of being strong young men of God, and wonderful, beautiful young ladies of God. We must reaffirm this in this day of such CONFUSION, of chaos and deception. We must reaffirm to our sons that you are a male and yes, God made you this way, and you are to like woman, and when the time is right, The Lord will give you a woman to marry with whom you can spend the rest of your life with,same thing with the young ladies. We must reaffirm to them, that they are worthy , valuable, and that they are to like boys, and when they get older they too,can one day be married to a man have children, raise a family. This sounds so silly, that I have to say this, but it’s apparent that many, and I mean many parents haven’t told their children this while raising them,and that is why so many are getting swept in this tidal wave of transgenderism…….my God, have mercy on us, WAKE up! Christians it is our children the enemy wants , it is OUR. Responsibility to fight for them , not just the church, and the pastor, US! YOU! ME! God bless you, and May God keep you protected in this last days…..

    1. Sher

      Amen to what you are saying Lillie. My great-nephew just turned four. He is now placing a hoodie on his head and saying that it is his long hair. He is also trying to dance like a ballerina. He places his hands on his hips and leans to the side. I correct the behavior, however, his mother, my sisters and his grandmother only discuss it and ignore it. I feel that it is our job to guide and instruct the children. We are to address that particular behavior as well as if hwhen they do wrong. I am highly disappointed in the behavior of adults and the lackadaisical way in which they raise their children these days. We are failing miserably.

  2. Lilie

    This is so sad, how can a mother say something so horrible to their child, look at the consequences of our actions ,our words. We must learn to love our children, like God loves us, encourage them,strengthen them. Ensure them of their strong points of being strong young men of God, and wonderful, beautiful young ladies of God. We must reaffirm this in this day of such CONFUSION, of chaos and deception. We must reaffirm to our sons that you are a male and yes, God made you this way, and you are to like woman, and when the time is right, The Lord will give you a woman to marry with whom you can spend the rest of your life with,same thing with the young ladies. We must reaffirm to them, that they are worthy , valuable, and that they are to like boys, and when they get older they too,can one day be married to a man have children, raise a family. This sounds so silly, that I have to say this, but it’s apparent that many, and I mean many parents haven’t told their children this while raising them,and that is why so many are getting swept in this tidal wave of transgenderism…….my God, have mercy on us, WAKE up! Christians it is our children the enemy wants , it is OUR. Responsibility to fight for them , not just the church, and the pastor, US! YOU! ME! God bless you, and May God keep you protected in this last days….. Amen

  3. Min. Robert Murrell

    This is a great tragedy when parents tell their children they wish they has been born the opposite sex. They don’t know that satan plants seeds of confusion in children early childhood. For years people struggle with these things. Since the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the True church has been largely rejected by the world due to the blinding and dulling of the ears of individuals by satan. That is why it is critical that we get the Bible message out about true deliverance from whatever is ailing people by sharing the Gospel. It is time that we put away our own agendas and dreams of superstardom. It is my belief that if we as the Church were doing what Christ left us to do, we would see less of these types of things. My prayer is that a Great Awakening would happen soon.

  4. Chudney

    This has brought me to complete! Tears. The mother is a complete heartless human being this he/she is paying an eternal price for a situation that could have been helped had there been li ing people of God in this person life. My God! the heart is desperately wicked WHO! Can know it? Praying

  5. Wanda

    Sad, sad, sad! This goes to show you that the world dont want JESUS! They want what they think is best for them and then sometimes its just too late. The saddest part to me after all is sad and done, I always wonder if a true child of God had at anytime had cross their path to witness to them the love of a loving God who sincerely cares if God was given the chance even at all…we just on our our do not know WHATS BEST FOR US, BUT GOD DOES. HE IS SO LOVING, AND KIND AND CARES ABOUT EVERY ISSUE THAT PLAGUES US!

  6. Stan Rogers

    The body will always shut down prematurely when it is forced to do that which it was not designed to do. The typical life span of a homosexual is 45 years of age. In this case the death was by choice.

  7. HJ

    I am a living witness that those who are looking to have gender surgery won’t find the answers they are looking for through surgery. I was an unattractive girl growing up and endured much verbal abuse from my family. When I hit puberty, I was convinced that something was wrong with me and that I should have been a boy. Back in the ’70s, this was practically unheard of, but there was information available about it. I would cross dress in my room and would tape hair out of the hairbrush and pretend that I had a mustache. Even though I got saved in my late teens and understood that it would be wrong to get this kind of surgery, I still struggled with my identity. God had to do a complete work in me from the inside out. I prayed every day for the Lord to heal me from the hurtful words of my past and show me how to walk in forgiveness. I prayed that the Lord would put the right identity in me and I can truly testify that He did. I knew I was on the way when I had a desire to get my ears pierced and threw away all of my masculine clothing. I am middle-aged now and when I reflect on how far Jesus has brought me, it brings tears to my eyes. The Lord changed my mind, my thoughts, my feelings, and my identity from a masculine one to a feminine one; so much so that no one would believe that I ever had this kind of struggle. My heart is saddened about this story, because apparently no one shared the love of Jesus Christ with her. That is the only answer for the lies of Satan.

    1. Sher

      Bless your heart.. My heart breaks for Nancy. I am literally crying as I type. Your story is a testimony as to how one can overcome through the love of Christ. Your faithfulness and perseverance are to be commended. Thank you for sharing.

    2. Jill E

      AMEN. We are new creatures in Christ but sometimes it takes time. And nothing goes to waste, as you share your testimony, it blesses others who need to hear it. Thank you for your honesty.

  8. childless mother

    my heart breaks for nancy, her mom and grandmom. there is obvious abuse, torture and cruelty in this lineage. it just proves that sins are visited onto the children. and i ask… where the men in this story? nancy’s father and so on. so sad but i remind myself that God loves each of them and that is why He sent His son… the word says that some will perish and only God knows who those people are…

  9. Ezekiel's Daughter

    Another heart-breaking reality of sin and how humanity has completely turn his back on God. This is just another facet of Satan’s MANY projects(sports, politics, entertainment, etc.) to kill and destroy mankind. While most of us feel compassion and sadness for this person, we must examine ourselves and search our own hearts. Only by the grace of God that this is not our story (Amen?) The mother of Nancy was simply a child of Satan. Those that do not belong to Christ are a slave of Satan. HJ in the above statements is absolutely correct! We must make it necessary to reach out to the lost to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ (the whole thing…not just grace). If the lost do know that we are inherently opposed to God and have the potential of being as evil as this mother, they are doomed for the same life today……and the next. The saddest part of this story is this: She lived a life that was consumed with feelings of rejection and no peace. Imagine every day of your life trying and trying to be accepted and loved by the one person (and possibly others) that SHOULD love you; but hates you. After all that she didn’t receive the love she thought…and if she didn’t know Christ…she’ll spend eternity in hell with endless torment. SELAH

  10. Sheree

    There seems to be an issue with the mother thats not being discussed. Who abused her, lied to her and told her females were worthless?

  11. Rene

    I don’t think her mom was abnormal in her response to her daughter’s birth. Women who are unable to get past the abuse or pain they suffered when they were younger have a difficult time bonding with their children. Plus even women have a limit to how much they can take when their children are extremely deformed from birth – many just can’t cope and abandon their baby / leave it for dead.( It sounds harsh but it’s really no less cruel than a woman willingly consenting to an abortion.) Since the woman wasn’t deformed it seems like her mother was abused when she was younger and took it out on her daughter from birth.

    Women rejecting their children from birth is nothing new. Even women have to be taught how to love their own children for it’s not natural for a person to love someone more than themselves. It has to be taught.

  12. Jeane K

    Lord have mercy on these poor mixed up folks and their messed up parents too? The fact that that woman didn’t even realize she was dealing with a demon says an awful lot, but her mother sounds like she needs help and deliverance too. Only God knows how many of hem are going through this in ‘silence’, while the world constantly tells them they’re alright and the rest of us are sick. Much prayer is needed all around people, satan realizes his time is growing ever shorter so he’s going to ‘step-it-up’ in any way, shape or form no matter who he has to use. God help us to help those who really need the Lord, in these last and evil days.

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