JEZEBELS FINEST HOUR | Most christian women with daddy issues will control their husbands and attempt to make him what she believes he should be rather than accepting her identity from him. She will try to over shadow his spirituality and become the spirit guide of the home. (1Cor. 11:9) Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
• She will guide her home with visions, dreams, premonitions, and other antics to get what she wants accomplished because she is basing her identity on who she was or desires to be versus submitting to her husband and being a true help meet. (1Kings 21:25) There was no one like Ahab, who gave himself up to do evil in the eyes of the Lord, moved to it by Jezebel his wife.
• If being a help meet was never modeled before her, then she doesn’t know how to submit properly. And if she marriedweak man, he doesn’t know how to give her identity either, so the homes order is distorted. Usually people like this desire ministry because they can rule over people spiritually without having any credentials or qualifications. It’s all based on spiritual things that can’t be proven or graded. (Eph. 5:33) Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.